im not flirting with you, im just nice like that

Hello good evening.

in less than two hours, it will be February again and im not excited at all bec it may sound loser-ish but ive never been on an intimate date on valentines' . ive been to a few group dates but i dont regret them cause i had fun!

anyhow.

do you recognize this facebook group?



Rings true, it think. there have been a lot of guys in my life who ruin my being friends with them based on some misguided notion that im flirting. sometimes, when i like a person or i want to get to know them better, i try to be nice to them,. invite them to activities, try to learn about their lives on a personal level. But if they are men, they tend to misinterpret and think that maybe i am being nice to them so we could date.

There was one time. I chose this guy to be my partner in a beadmaking activity. (You have to choose one from the opposite sex). He made us wear those bracelets at church together. And i was so stupid not to notice that he was actually doing something that was supposed to be romantic. i never knew his intentions until he gave me that teddy bear with a heart and red candle. i kept the candle, though.

and then there was this other guy, who i gave my attention to because he was extremely nice. i spoke with him and joked and laughed. but that was it. he was like an older kuya so i treat/humored him like one. then while i was having lunch that day, i saw him in some hidden position taking a video of me while i eat! grabe.. stalker!.. he really ticked me off. but i was trying to be so nice that i just got his camera and deleted my video which really looked disgusting. i mean who really wants to see a woman masticating food?

that night, during the dance socials, sadly, i got to dance with almost no one because he placed his chair like a bakuran beside me. i didnt enjoy. lucky for me, my sister got me out of the situation by telling me to sit at her table. she's so good at that.

there is still no good ending between these 2 guys. sometimes people think im mean when im trying to avoid converstaions wih them. in fairness to me, i think ive never done anything to consciously to mislead them. but no matter what i do im still the villain.

what is the lesson to be learned here people?

Bosses

Hello there, it's been ages!.

I missed blogging a lot but one thing that hinders me from coming back here in this particular site, is the fact that it doesnt even have a pagerank so it's like i lost some interest in it. It became zero well within last year for a reason i have yet to discover but i hope that if anyone has an idea, could you please enlighten me?

Anyway, even if i , the author, have lost interest in this blog, i hope you can spark some interest in it. go to the must-reads section on the left part. i have assumed that they are my better posts. thank you

Updates:
I am so scared to write about my current job right now, because of my boss, who has never failed to terrify me every single time we meet. But because of him, i have become very, very successful in my job/goal/task. I cannot tell you the nature of my work bec im too terrified that he might find this blog or read about my murmurings..
Walls have eyes and ears.

He is different from other bosses because you'd actually remember his face. I actually dreamt about his eyes (huge ones) after he got angry with me. Napanaginipan ko talaga.

When his anger is on a rampage, it'sbest that you just shut up. But in all fairness to him, he doesnt get angry for no reason. But it's still best that you shut up.

Have you had bosses that youre uncomfortable with? Share the experience.

i just realized

Hello dont you know that i just realilzed that this blog just turned 1 year old a month ago. wow. im a bad blogger, i neglected this toddler blog. oh well at least im writing now. for anyone who would care to read, i actually am now pursuing my cartoonist dream but it was instantly put on a halt since im kinda busy with my new job in research. wow what a term.. "research". well im really into this field and im using my organizing and medical know how skills. i find it awesome that what im doing is something important (it's an international study). i was really overwhelmed with the enormrous amount of responsibility but now im getting the hang of it, thanks to answered prayers. my faith really increased.

Anyway, i really hope i could push thru with my dreams in the drawing field. i really really hope..
maybe in the next few months i can post a few of the drawings.

have a great day,
flor

Hi there, i'm selling my books!

Cheesy!

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When it rains, it's four!

it's been raining all week, thank goodness for the cool weather. Wala kong maisulat dahil parang may drought sa isip ko. and since im so bored because it's weekend and im staying home (l*ser) i'll just show you an amusing note in facebook.

ANONG GAGAWIN MO PAG:
1. May lumapit sayo at nagpa-autograph?
- bigyan ko sya agad kasi baka mainip yung iba pang fans

2. Bigla kang hinalikan ng close/best friend mong opposite sex?
- turn the other cheek

7. Binackstab ka ng kaibigan mo?
- kill them with kindness.

8. Inalok ka ng GMA7 para sa isang commercial?
- depende.basta wag lang pang lbm or speed babad parang si piolo

9. Hinabol ka ng aso?
- i bite him (quoting my korean student)

10. Sumemplang ka sa harap ng crush mo?
- kunyari masakit para tutulungan nya ko tumayo

ANONG IREREPLY MO PAG SINABIHAN KA NG:
1. “bat hanggang ngayon inde ka pa rin maka move on?"
- i..cant..talk...about it..right ..now (tutulo ang luha sa isang mata)
- ask joan (peace mare)

2. “bakit ka ba layo ng layo sakin?"
- matagal ko nang gustong sabihin sayo na maligo ka

3. “pwede bang maging tayo?”
- hindi pa ko handa magmahal (read with saints scho accent)

4. “naiinggit ako sayo”
- you're not the only one

5. “sana kasi hindi ka nangiiwan diba?”
- hu u?

6. “ang manhid mo..”
- uy kamusta na yung test mo kahapon

7. “punta tayo sa mall! nuod tayo sine?"
- sure basta horror

8."mahal na mahal kita...sana tandaan mo yan"
- speechless tapos manghihina ang tuhod

BAKIT..
3. gusto mong mamatay??
- kasi pagod na ko magmahal (quoted from mg)

4. masarap kumain?
- ano ba!? i hate food!!!

PAANO...
4. ka pinapangiti o pinapasaya ng mahal mo?
- ano ba ..stop it!!! ayan nagmamaroon na ko


NARANASAN MO NA BANG...
9. Umiyak ng sobra?
- yes yes yes. it feels good afterwards

10. Hindi matulog magdamag?
- it's my hobby.obvious kasi mukha na kong panda
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